Start a group

To get a new TOUGHLOVE® Parent Support Group started, you'll need about five parents willing to help get the group going and prepared to stay with the group for at least three months. Fortunately, the five parents will not have to "wing it".

You will have the support of both the service centre and a local TOUGHLOVE Representative, if one is available. TOUGHLOVE Representatives are pretty dedicated, so even if you live a distance from the nearest region, you may still find support.

The best thing to do is contact the service centre of your nearest TOUGHLOVE parent support group to see who they have that might be able to assist you. If no Representative is near, we will help you get your group started. We have a booklet on starting a Parent Support Group.

The next thing you do with these parents is to locate a meeting place. Get in touch with your Representative for ideas on what sort of place to look for. Items to consider when locating a meeting place include:

  • Easily accessible location keeping physically disabled persons in mind.
  • Rent-free (since you are providing a service to the community).
  • A large enough room with sufficient space for several circles of chairs with 5 to 8 chairs in each circle. This will allow for extra room when the group begins to grow.
  • Audio visual equipment should be available.
  • Facilities should be available.
  • Hospitals are not recommended. Meeting in a hospital (especially a mental health institution) could be a conflict of interest. Some parents may find it uncomfortable.
  • Schools might be willing to assist as TOUGHLOVE helps students and parents. However, schools sometimes do not provide keys and tend to close at odd times.
  • You need complete access to your meeting place. TOUGHLOVE Parent Support Groups meet once a week every week of the year.

Don't be afraid to ask for help from your Representative. That's what they're there for. They will be there to train you for the first few weeks as your group forms.

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